That’s what I’m proposing in my latest article on the In Control blog. You can find it here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/in-control/201908/there-s-no-such-thing-behavior In this article, I suggest that what we can observe as “behavior” is only ever half the story. In order to really understand other people, and improve the way we relate to them, we need to understand goals. I go so far as to propose that we should think about the word “goal” as a verb and not a noun. Goaling is what we do!

Posted 28.08.19